Family Week - Music Therapy

I haven't written for a very long time because life has taken a very different direction that I had not planned. As many of you know, my youngest daughter, Alison, has entered the Center for Change for treatment for her eating disorder that she has been struggling with for almost 6 years now. Amy and I have moved here to be with her during this time.

I will write more about eating disorders and the things we have been learning and experiencing at a later time, but tonight I wanted to write a little about today. Once a month they have Family Week where we go to many group sessions and classes and see what they are doing in the Center. My mom is here with me for today and tomorrow, Amy joins in when she is not at work.

Anyway, tonight there was music therapy... didn't have much to do about music but very interesting. First the leader put on ocean music then had us start throwing 2 balls of string to each other while holding on to the string that was thrown to us. It created a spider web that 'represented' the ocean :) after we let it wave like a storm and then calm down, we laid it on the floor. Then we were given some clay and asked to make something we would find in the ocean and put it in our ocean on the floor. After we all did this she had us go around the room and tell what we made and what it might mean to us. She said that using the ocean in an exercise like this was an insightful way of expressing feelings of where you are at with life at this time.

There was a whole variety of things made and lots of insight given, like:

• Electric eel and crab = possibily representing protection
• A gold fish = a fish not common in the sea, but in a glass bowl being watched all the time
• A skool of gold fish = common fish but seeking the support of others
• Exotic fish = enjoying the vairety of life
• Whale = seeking to be in control of their environment
• Star fish = seems lifeless when out of water, but comes alive when put back in the water. Also have the unique ability to grow back a limb when it is cut off.
• Jelly fish = beautiful, but almost transparent with a mean sting if you get too close
• Fish poop = 'it's always there...part of life'

I SOOOOO wish I had kept our figures and taken pictures of them for you!!!!!!

Here is what we came up with; I will let you analyze it if you want...

• Mom went first...she did a shipwrecked boat with a person surviving inside (with a smile).
• Amy did a sandy floor with seaweed growing and a rainbow fish swimming among the seaweed (actually Amy and Alison worked on that together).
• Alison did a mushroom.
• I did a piece of driftwood with barnacles on it sitting on some seaweed.

I'd love to hear what you might come up with if you were to do this same exercise.

This might be an interesting experience for a family night or family reunion or something.